I wouldn't worry about it too much. Being an adult isn't much different. You're still always learning and growing up a little bit. It just comes with its own responsibilities.

[Expectations of emotional maturity, diligence, social rules and etiquette, planning for the future, and dealing with physical changes after one left their prime... really, did anyone ever stop learning?]

I'd say being in the Order was an interesting preparation for that, though. Your maturity has always been pretty impressive under stress.

[The passivity? Not so much. But he'll hold his tongue on that.]